專題特寫
Finding safety in something soft
Many children have an item that they love. This item can be a blanket, pillow, stuffed animal, or any other soft object. This type of item is called a comfort object. Perhaps the most common kind of comfort object is a security blanket. Security blankets are often small, soft blankets that children take with them wherever they go. Many children can’t sleep without their security blankets or other comfort objects.
Comfort objects are also called transitional objects. They help children shift from being dependent on their parents to being an independent person. When a child is alone, they may feel scared. The soft comfort object helps provide a feeling of safety. It is similar to how they feel safe when they are with their parents.
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Losing a comfort object can be a big problem. It is difficult to replace a comfort object even if the new pillow or toy looks exactly like the old one. This is because the child doesn’t have an emotional connection with the replacement object. Researchers found that 25% of children do not want to have a copy of their favorite toy. They only want the original one.
Time flies. Jimmy quickly shifted from a baby boy to a handsome young man.
時光飛逝。吉米很快從嫩嬰變成了一位英俊的年輕人。
The elderly are often dependent on their children for many things.
老人在很多事情上時常依賴子女。
Your success is dependent on your effort.
成功與否要視你的努力而定。
Your taste in clothes is similar to mine.
你的穿著品味和我很相似。
♦ not... without... 雙重否定的用法
not 表示「不、無」,without 則是「沒有」,負負得正, 所以 not... without N/V-ing 是用「雙重否定」來形成肯 定的含義,強調「沒有(做)⋯⋯就不能⋯⋯」、「一定 要⋯⋯才能⋯⋯」、「做⋯⋯不能沒有⋯⋯」的意思。
例:My father can’t read without his glasses.
我爸爸不戴眼鏡就無法閱讀。
類似用法還有:
never... without V-ing 每次⋯⋯必然⋯⋯
例:Nick never goes to see a movie without buying some popcorn.
尼克每次去看電影一定會買爆米花。
★ 補充用法
wouldn ́t be complete without...
沒有⋯⋯,⋯⋯就不圓滿;一定要⋯⋯才算⋯⋯
例:Life wouldn’t be complete without music.
沒有音樂,生活就不圓滿。
請從下欄選出最適合的句子來完成該句
___1. My mom became emotional
___2. I want to get a job
___3. The watch you are wearing
A. and not be dependent on my family.
B. is similar to the one I lost last week.
C. owns a lot of money in that area.
D. upon reading the Mother’s Day card I sent her.
答案:1. D 2. A 3. B
從柔軟小物尋找安全感
許多孩子都擁有一件他們鍾愛的物品。這個物品可以是毯子、枕 頭、絨毛玩具或任何其他的柔軟小物。這種類型的物品被稱為安全感 小物。也許最常見的一種安全感小物是小被被。小被被通常是小而軟 的毯子,孩子們無論走到哪裡都隨身攜帶。許多孩子沒有小被被或其 他安全感小物就無法入睡。
安全感小物也被稱為過渡性客體。它們幫助孩子從依賴父母轉變 為獨立自主的個體。當孩子獨自一人時,他們可能會感到害怕。柔軟 舒適的東西有助於提供安全感。這類似於他們與父母在一起時的安全 感。
弄丟一個安全感小物會是一個大問題。即使新枕頭或玩具看起來 和舊的一模一樣,也很難取代安全感小物。這是因為孩子與替換物沒 有情感聯繫。研究人員發現,25% 的兒童不想要他們最喜歡的玩具的 複製品。他們只想要原本的。